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Let's talk bout friendship =)


last time when i berlegar-legar d kapet facebook...
there  is one post that catch my eyes...
it's ekceli some pictures that post by one of my friends...


many of the pictures are really nice n definitely contain many sweet memory among them....
they look really happy together just like a big family =))
1 picture that catch my eyes is an edited pic,
which contain many individual pic that been combined into 1 picture...
the picture showed the expression of happy, belonging,
sweet n semangat ntuk mengejar cita2 as medical doctor...


i actually tersentuh bila tgk gmbar tu...
they been really2 closed before this,
but now, everything is change...
coz, some of them r no longer hang out together...


when i think bout that,
i do imagine whether my friendship with my current friends
might end like that oso??


well, in friendship, its ekceli easy to lafazkan ayat "friends forever"...
"u're  my best buddy ever"...
which usually is my faveret quote when i write a card or make a wish to my friends...
i do realize that it's easy to say it out but its totally hard to do it...


what i mean is, senang ntuk mulut clarify seseorang tu as our best friend...
but do our heart oso clarify the same thing??
when we clarify someone as our bestfriend,
we actually make the person think that he/she is special n important to us...


for me, when i clarify the person as my best friend/ best buddy...
i really mean it...
my friend penah mention yg the word "bestfriend" ekceli suit for one person only...
there's no 1st bestfriend or 2nd bestfriend...all those term...
hmm true...but, x salah kan if we have more than 1 bestfriend??
i do have some bestfriends...
when i think i'm close to that person, when there is chemistry between us...
that's i called as bestfriend....


friends- who actually care bout me...
know when there's something wrong with me (haha senang je..tgk muncung pun tau ^^)...
menemani sy dikala sy hapy or sedih...
can share problems...
understand me...


when mention bout the word understanding....its ekceli can make me stress....
coz, some conflicts that happen between me
n my friends ekceli have smthing to do with the word "understanding"...


sy ekceli sorang yg suka pendamkan perasaan n masalah...
sy tak biasa nak ckp direct kat org,when i do feel unsastified with that person..
so, when i keep on pendamkan sgala ketakpuasan hati tu,
1 day it sure gonna explode and
booommmm~ there we are, conflict happen ~.~


i ekceli fed up when others want me to understand them,
but, did they trying to understand me oso??
sometimes i feel that i'm kind of understand other's feeling
but actually i didnt...
so dun just simply said that we understand the person bcoz we actually didnt..


1 of my friends once said that,
only we can understand more bout ourselves...
there's no other people that
can understand as well as we understand ourselves..


somemore, in friendship, we cannot letakkan harapan
yg our friends will understand us n layan us like what we want...
if we feel like that, means that we actually sorang yg selfish..
coz everyone sure dun like people to control their action
and diarah...


when we arguing n have opposite opinion with our friends..
we sure want to defend our opinion rite?
but instead of keep on arguing, why not we learnt to accept
others opinion if u think their opinion actually not bad at all?
stop thinking like u r the one yg betul n others salah...

and 1 more thing yg sy x brape suke, when some people
keep on "mengungkit" bout our mistakes / decision...
for me, if pda awalnya u oredi agree with others decision,
jgn la plak bila things x run smoothly, u keep on
saying that :" huh bgus lgi ikut sy pnya idea oo"...or..
"nah, kan sudah sy ckp awal2 yg bla bla bla bla bla what so ever"

when we oredi agree to accept one's opinion...
just accept laa the result no matter it is positive or negative...
dun complaint too much...
dun be selfish n do think bout other's feeling...

however, in friendship, jgn la plak owez jadi "pengalah"...
i think i did it often haha...
coz when kite slalu jee mengalah dgn org,
lama2 kt akn ade 1 prasaan "sakit hati"...
yg finally will makan diri kita sndri -_-
senang crite just be in between...
smtimes we need to "mengalah" but
smtimes we oso need to defence ourselve...


so, in my opinion, to maintain a friendship...
the most important thing is tolerate & give n take =)
when we think other's seems like "against" us...
dun tunding jari ke arah other's n think yg its others fault...
try to look into ourselves...look carefully...n think...why other's seems dun like me??
adakah dorang x suke dgn perangai sy??or did i did smthing wrong??did my words hurt anybody??

when we unable to think d mana kesilapan kt..
dun hesitate to ask others opinion...
n please pay attention to what others may think bout us...
jgn cepat melenting...just listen...
coz its actually anoyed people when we mencelah n trying to defence ourselves
sedangkan org len still blom habis ckp lgi ~.~

toleransi penting dlm sebuah persahabatan tu...
lgi2 if kita n kwn kt masing2 sorang yg ego n kepala batu...
erm ekceli i'm sometimes agak ego jga...x mo mngaku kalah..
but next time, i dun want to be like that anymore...
best sgt ke main ego2 ni???sy rasa, mkin tekanan aderlaa haha..

besides that, if kta x suka dgn prangai kwn2 kt,
jgn stress kan diri kt dgn berharap yg they will change their behaviour demi kita...
instead of that, why not kt sndri yg learn to accept it n just think positive...
coz everyone do have their own lifestyle...
eventhough kt rasa cara dorang mcm salah or ade yg x kena,
just let it be...yg penting org tu sndri rasa selesa n they didnt cause much problem to us...

hmm rasanye, i better stop here....
ekceli ape yg sy tulis ni dri pengalaman sy sndri....
dunno where to luahkan, so blog might be the suitable place hehe ^^
last wordssssss from me...

i really hope that friendship yg terjalin antara sy n rkn2 sy skang will last till the end...but i do oso need to prepare myself for any kemungkinan...coz life doenst owez flow like what we hope it to be =)

maybe skang, kmi mcm isi dgn kuku....later, we might be an enemy...we never know rite? just pray it wont gonna happen...insya'Allah if kita ikhlas dlm berkawan, everything will be okay =))

p/s: lari topik kejap...since 2day is Hari Raya Aidiladha...Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha n maaf zahir batin ^^
hmmm i wonder napelah kwn2 sy x wish hari raya kat sy ni???
-ve thinking: haiizzz trlmpau enjoy holiday pnya psal la ni...smpai trlupa mo wish
+ve thinking: dorang x de kredit kot -_-

hahahaha what ever~ yg penting raya mesti happppppyyyyyy~
(kekenyangan mkn nasi hujan panas + kuih raya yg mak sy buat hehe)
somemore, feels really relieved after bersalaman n minta maaf with my parents td hehe =)))))