Tgh hr td after class...me, amin, ct n chalen went to library ntuk isi perut...
plan kmi pas mkn trus balik sal SGD start kul 2 lmbt lg...
chalen plak wlpun die ade klas jepun kul 10 still join kmi mkn gak...haha demi ct baaa...
Mase mkn td, fathimah ade join kmi mkn skali...
kesian baa die sorang2, so kmi pun x kberatan la ble die request nk join kmi...
hehe tp yg byk layan conversation fathimah c amin la...siap speaking lg oo dorang tu...
kmi 3 plak byk diam je hehe kmi kn play role as active listener...
ade one part of the conversation yg mmg mnarik minat sy...hehe that's why dtg ilham sy nk letak tajuk "kawan-teman-sahabat"....mase tu just tgal me, amin n fathimah...chalen da lama blah sal g kelas jepun...ct plak p ambik laptop die...
hmm camne leh tercetus perbualan pasal teman2 ni ek? hehe ekceli its started when amin tb2 tnya fathimah ade someone spesel ka?? haha bleh2 plak fathimah wat lawak...die ckp bf?ba~nyak~ haha kmi fhm la ba mksud die kwn laki kn..then amin x puas hati la, die pun nk korek lg...then fathimah ade la mention mase sek die ade la rapat dgn seseorang...org tu skang study d USA oo..fuyooo leh tahan oo kwn fathimah ni...kmi tak tau le ape prasaan fathimah pda laki tu...tp rasanye mcm teman rapat je kot...
then start situ la, tb2 amin terlintas tnya pendapat fathimah ape pndngan fathimah if opposite sex become really2 close friends (not same as couple k)...fathimah ckp, it's fine for her, tak salah baa laki n pompuan bcome bestfriends...suddenly die mention pasal "kawan", "teman" n "sahabat"...die ckp 3 term wlpun nmpk sama tp ekceli berbeza dr segi makna...(huhu sy ingatkn sama ja ni hehe)
KAWAN - everybody has kawan...kawan is ekceli org yg kt kenal...sape2 pun bleh jd kwn kt...classmates, colleagues, they all are friends...just friends...
TEMAN - teman plak kire upgrade skit dr kawan...teman is somenone yg slalu brsama kt wlau ape pun brlaku...kire mcm blngkas la...p toilet ka p cafe ka, mesti "teman" yg kasi teman kt hahaha ,pa yg sy mrepek ni...aisey buat2 ja la pham aa...erm teman ni kire org yg rapat la dgn kt...kt tau ape yg die suke, n die pun tau ape yg kt suke or tak suke...tp based on fathimah, wlpun rapat, kt still keberatan nk share everything dgn teman...maybe certain2 topik je yg kt slese share with teman...secret2 yg btol2 top secert mmg kt x kn share punye... ( erm tp depends on each individu jga la..)
SAHABAT - haa ni la kire mcm org yg bleh sehidup semati dgn kt...org yg kt btol2 trust, kt sayang, care...kirenye sahabat ni like everything la to us..kt faham prangai die, ape kelemahan die, kelebihan die, ape yg die suke, x suke n sgala rahsia kt yg even parents nda tau pun, tp sahabat bleh tau....hehe betapa besarnya role sorang sahabat kan ^^ lg satu, sahabat jga adalah insan yg x kn jemu2 mmbantu kt dikala kt dtmpa kesusahan...huhu tp once kt kene betray oleh insan yg bergelar sahabat ni...mmg confirm la luka d hati takkan recover punye...if ya pun mybe will take a very2 long time...
hmm tp lain plak dr pemahaman c amin...part kawan tu sama la...cume for his opinion, teman tu kire up skit dr sahabat...means kawan dulu then sahabat then follow by teman...
bg amin, perhubungan laki n pompuan yg kire kamceng leh dikategorikan sbgai teman...teman is someone yg kt trust,sayang n care much...from teman, there will be chances for opposite sex to become couple...sahabat plak lebih kpd perhubungan between same sex...that's what amin told me...(maybe mcm perhubungan die dgn ed la kot hihihi...)So, tu lah serba sdkit pasal kawan-teman-sahabat ni...aisey asyik crite sal pndgn org je...camne lak dgn pndgn sndri???erm, bg sy la kan...i agree with both of them...
Kawan - semue pun dikire kawan...tak semestinye kt kene rapat dgn org tu bru dikire kwn...mcm ex musuh ke ex gf or ex bf ka bleh la masuk lam kategori kwn ni hehe
Teman- btol gak la pe yg amin ckp, close relationship btwn male n female can be consider as teman...erm sy rase dgn teman pun kt bleh share everything...but term teman mesti la someone yg kt btol2 kenal n rapat....maybe leh kire same term with bestfriend...
Sahabat- lebih sesuai dikategorikan sbgai close relationship btwn same sex
personally, i think teman is someone yg gler2 rapat dgn kt n kt tak hesitate mo share anything with teman....sy rase teman sy cume ade bbrapa org je...sape orgnye biarla rahsia hahaha...nnti tmbul plak spekulasi....
so, 3 term ni da kire clear la kan...
then how bout kawan baik?teman baik?sahabat baik?
are they the same or different???
aiseymen lupa plak mo tnya fathimah td oo...
hehe len kali klau ade chance mesti kena tnya ni...(n-n)
p/s: so how many kawan / teman / sahabat that u have???
2 comments:
can i add a comment???? xblh pun mau juga... hohoho... for me sahabat is somebody that will lead u torward a good life dunia dan akhirat.... kawan is somebody u know recently and u are interested in knowing them... teman is somebody that will always be with u...
i agree wif those definition of the 3 term....
ya,semua org pun kita anggap kawan jg
then teman tu yg rapat dgn kita,yg selalu ngan kita.
but sahabat is way up to the list, dia yg paling korg berani nak mengata kelemahannya, sesungguhnya sahabat yg paling jujur, wlupun kejujurannya terhiris di hati...
for me.... everybody is my friend (kawan), certain friend are close friend (teman), and only this friend of mine i thought as my true friend (sahabat), could be anybody, but as long as there is no conflict, everybody will be happy without even caring of what place is urs in a friend's heart....
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